Monday, November 4, 2013

A Gratitude Journal


An attitude of gratitude brings peace, joy, freedom and abundance. Though I have not always kept a journal just for listing gratefulness, I frequently make it a practice to write or mentally list those for whom or that for which I am grateful. My journals are a mish mash of dates and topics because I grab whichever one is closest so I can get my thoughts on paper as soon as the need strikes me. Maybe because people know I often put pen to paper, their (or my) Angels urge them to buy them for me, or it is just generally a thoughtful gift, I have numerous ones filled, partially or completely filled or not yet started. This one, I am keeping out for a daily list of gratitude. The shift in thoughts and energy is profound when I actually write out what I am grateful for. The last entry in this journal (but not my last journal entry) was dated July 2005 and described a dream in which I gave birth to a baby girl with dark hair. At this moment, I am holding my dark haired baby girl. Often I've said that I feel like I've known about her my whole life. This journal entry would seem to support that feeling, an apparent guide to my path this time on Earth. For that, for her, for her big brother and furry "big sisters" who "paved the way", my husband and so many others, I am grateful. 

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Healing with Belly Dance and Yoga


The Belly Dance and Yoga Connection

This was originally an article I wrote that was published in The Guilded Serpent.

I started my Yoga practice not long after beginning to Belly Dance. I was drawn to it and stayed with it as I enjoyed the benefits of the complementary practices. The promises of relaxation, strength, flexibility and spirituality intrigued me and fit right into my Belly Dancing lifestyle. I am not alone! Many Belly Dancers also practice Yoga and those who do Yoga are often intrigued by Belly Dance.  We will explore what the draw is and why. 

Sterling Painton, from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, was already a yoga instructor with her own studio when she started Belly Dance classes with Kari Merlina. Painton’s business partner was interested in adding “something different” to the class schedule and Merlina’s Belly Dance class fit the bill. Since Sterling had loved dancing since she was a little girl, she was excited to be able to start formal classes. She did not think it possible to start dance training in her 30’s, so she happily embarked on this new journey!

On a purely physical level, Yoga conditions the body and allows Belly Dancers to execute movements with fluidity and strength and access muscles with body awareness. Painton reports that she now has an incredible lengthening through her torso in her Yoga postures due to the strengthening and opening that Belly Dance provides. Painton found when she was learning Belly Dance that the isolations were remotely understandable because she had years of practicing isolations on the body in Yoga (such as lifting the quadriceps off the knees or lifting the rib cage while grounding the feet). She also noticed she could also yoga to counter stretch an area she just worked in Belly Dance. Additionally, she notes that Yoga will help protect the body from injuries and if you do get injured the recovery time is faster if you are a practicing yogi.  I personally start my classes with a Yoga warm up for this reason. Painton points out that both Yoga and Belly Dance require a great deal of discipline.

Both Belly Dance and Yoga can release trauma, both physical and emotional.  At my Yoga for the Special Child ™ (www.specialyoga.com) training, Sonia Sumar pointed out that after Yoga class, some students felt negative emotions without knowing why because no thoughts were attached to them.  This was the body releasing trapped emotions.  I am sure to point this out especially when working on ribcage pops and body waves because the heart space tends to hold so much emotion and it is worked so continuously in these movements.  Letting go of those feelings that no longer serve you allows you to move forward physically and emotionally.

Mentally, Yoga allows the Belly Dancer to let go of the mental clutter that prevents us from “getting it” [a movement, combination, emotional expression, timing, etc.].  Instead of constantly wondering how you are doing or judging or criticizing yourself, Yoga allows for “letting go and letting it flow”.  
“Most of us who practice Yoga have slipped into flow on the mat- probably many times.  We know those wonderful moments when postures feel effortless.  The body seems to move on its own without force or strain.  We “know” the posture in an entirely new way and come out of these experiences somehow changed.  At ease.  Knowing ourselves more fully. “ (Cope, Yoga Journal October 2007)

Belly Dancers may recognize flow when you feel at one with the music and everything else slips away; you may notice your audience, but they are quiet witnesses.  Or, the audience and your dance partner(s) are part of your flow experience- everyone feeling the music completely and communicating with total ease.

Stephen Cope, working with Kripalu (www.kripalu.org), conducted yoga studies with musicians and athletes.  Cope himself noticed that the more consistent he was in his yoga practice, the more skillful he was on the piano.  This integration of mind, body and spirit seems to be the biggest factor in creating not only fully satisfying experiences, but also improvement in performance.
The studies indicate that a yoga practice including three hatha yoga (the physical practice) classes a week (gentle to moderate classes with a strongly meditative flavor and an emphasis on breathwork), a simple 30 minute mindfulness meditation practice each day and participating in certain aspects of a yogic lifestyle, including conscious eating, can help a performer “flow” by creating relaxed concentration.  The changes in the musicians who did yoga were quite dramatic.  One group had significantly less performance anxiety than the control group.  The second group confirmed that finding and also uncovered in the yoga group’s capacity to enter into flow states- and especially autotelic experience.   

An autotelic experience is one in which the experience of performance is perceived as intrinsically rewarding and fulfilling, apart from any external rewards.  The performer lets go of all self-consciousness about the performance-and any grasping for outcome or extrinsic reward.  She feels compelled by the sheer joy of the activity itself.  Studies show that the more often performers have this kind of experience, the more motivated they become to push the boundaries of their mastery.  (Cope, Yoga Journal October 2007)

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, author of Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience, tells us that “Training attention to come back over and over again to a complex task allows awareness to become increasingly absorbed in the task at hand.”  Yoga does this both in Asanas (physical poses), breath work and meditation (returning to attending to breath, thoughts, sensations, etc.).
Belly Dancers are experienced with bringing attention back to a task over and over when they drill.  For example after 50 hip ups you may wonder what you are having for lunch, but you have 50 more to go, so you bring your attention back to the task at hand.  Practicing a choreography also requires attending mentally.  Improv Choreography asks that you stay totally present and not only attend to what you are doing, but also what your partner is doing. It is a very Zen process in that respect.

Spiritually, Yoga centers the Belly Dancer.  By revisiting Yoga’s non-competitive principals, one can acknowledge the bigger picture instead of any perceived slights or longings of the heart induced by the ins and outs of the community.  Online communities such as “Too Much Drama to Dance” on Tribe.net show us examples of the struggles many Belly Dancers experience.  Through practicing yoga, Cope tells us that
“the performer, like the yogi, has a transient but profound experience of feeling more at ease with life, of trusting the ineffable ‘inner self’, and of living free from self-concept in a kind of river of energy and intelligence.  This is perhaps the spiritual experience par excellence.  Yoga transforms performance in powerful ways, reframing most conventional notions of the very meaning and purpose of performance itself.”
Belly Dancers report stress and negative energy burning away after class or a great performance.  It also often provides a supportive social atmosphere which may be difficult to find with today's busy schedules.

Both practices balance the Chakras, starting with posture that aligns the spine.  Chakras are energy centers in the body.  Heat, light, electricity and nerve impulses are all energy, and the Chakras correspond to nerve ganglia in the body.  By intentionally moving the body parts associated with each Chakra, you release blocks, and energize and balance the energy centers.  By working the chakras through two practices, one can experience greater balance and health.  Something to note is that while Belly Dance uses the whole body, there is a particular focus on the belly that one does not find in other movement systems.  We not only intentionally move the belly on its own, it is constantly engaged during posture and parts are accessed more during ribcage and hip movements, as well as body waves or undulations.  The solar plexus, or naval chakra, (manipura, the third chakra) is associated with personal power, confidence and the element fire.  With a stronger, more activated third chakra, one exudes more confidence than someone with a less energized naval chakra.  Perhaps this is the pull yogis feel, being already awakened to the energy and drawn to a dance that will further energize their inner fire. There is an innate need for humans to create and to express themselves creatively.  The second Chakra (or first, depending on the reference), located in the pelvis, is our creativity center.  With a strong emphasis on hip and pelvic movements, Belly Dance activates our creativity, a need often over-looked in Western society.  While also energized in Yoga, Yoginis may seek out Belly Dance as a way to further strengthen this Chakra.  On the other hand, if you are experiencing a creative block in Belly Dance, then Yogic meditation, especially creating and meditating on yantras (geometric designs conceived of as containers for spiritual energy [Tomlinson, Yoga Journal, August 2008]) can remove creative blocks.

Other movements and processes in the Belly Dance experience also balance and organize the Chakra system.  Floor work and foot work organize the first Chakra; ribcage and arm movements balance the fourth Chakra. Head slides, circles, swings and tosses, as well as zahgareeting and shouts of encouragement or excitement energize the fifth Chakra; visualizing [a new choreography or costume, a movement, etc.] and eye movements and moving meditations activate the sixth Chakra; and connecting with the Divine and/or your fellow dancers (including, but not limited to the Zen feeling created during Improvisational Choreography) and moving meditation invigorate the seventh Chakra.  To see my friends, family and me Belly Dancing through the Chakras, go to the video gallery at (http://www.tribalbellydance.net/videogallery.htm ) and click on “Pregnancy Honoring Performance”.

Another reason people may be attracted to both Belly Dance and Yoga is the release from typical Western thinking.  Both Belly Dance and Yoga originated in ancient times and on different continents/subcontinent.  These practices both offer a tolerance and acceptance of for the self not readily evident in our mainstream society.  Yoga teaches us to slow down, relax and process at a gentle, conscious pace.  Belly Dance shows us body acceptance outside of what bombards us in the mainstream media.     

Rodney Yee, a nationally known Yoga instructor and author of Moving Towards Balance: 8 Weeks of Yoga with Rodney Yee, says that Yoga puts everything into place.  It allows us to enjoy and experience Belly Dance more fully.  Belly Dance is artistically expressed wellness that offers strong confidence and Yoga offers a deep, balancing practice, especially for the times when we must look within.     

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Intense Scorpio Energy Asks Us to Delve in and Transform

This podcast from Empowering Astrology and 1/2 of Saturn Sisters gives a great explanation of the especially intense energy right now. Anxiety is common and deep psychological work is coming to the surface. Though difficult, by exposing it to light, these issues are healed.

There is another layer of intensity coming up with Pluto/Uranus square on November 1st (my Birthday [yes, I'm a Scorpio, so I understand the intensity on a daily basis], also known as the Celtic New Year, so a great time to set new intentions) and then there is another eclipse on November 3rd with the new moon. New moons are always a good time for setting new intentions, but this one is very powerful. So, now is the time to bring deep issues forth, clear the heart and set new intentions.  The ladies even drew a Tarot card which calls our attention to the light and potential we uncover by letting go of that which no longer serves us.  Take a listen! You won't be disappointed!



Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Artists Supporting Artists


Every year, our neighborhood has an event called "Art in the Park"... though now it's "Art in the Park-ing lot" since it has moved from the tree filled park to an uptown parking lot. Not sure why, but that's not really my point here.

Individual artists display and sell their work and we get a chance to see and experience much at once, just as any artist's fair provides. It is particularly exciting to me to have this opportunity right in my neighborhood, only a few minutes from my house. Growing up, we had my favorite town event ever called Heritage Day, which was filled with people in historic costume, making apple butter in huge iron cauldrons or other demonstrations. There were also makers selling their handmade wares- rag dolls are what I recall the most, probably because as a kid, that is what caught my eye. Even as a teenager, I made the effort to put aside my surliness and go join the fun on Heritage Day.  While Art in the Park(ing lot) is not really the same as Heritage Day, I am still thrilled to have it because I love art and the handmade movement.  Creative energy is such a delicious feeling.

When I walked into Karen McKee's tent where I bought the dishes in the above photo, I had a vision of her peacefully working on her ceramics and could really feel the love she put into her work.  That sealed it- I was definitely buying from her. When I saw these wonderful organically shaped dishes, I instantly knew I wanted them to hold my healing crystals. Rather than placing them on the surface where I do my Tarot readings, I could have them in a beautiful place of honor. Anything that adds to the ritual makes the readings that much more connected IMO.

If you find the picture interesting, you will certainly appreciate the energy and intention behind Karen's work. It always feels like I'm making my money count for so much more when I support an individual rather than a large corporation. The individual's ripple effect seems to contain so much light and love compared to buying one of many from a company who will never see your face.

Tell me about the art fairs you have been to and what you love about them. What does the energy feel like to you?

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Self Care During Mercury in Retrograde




As of yesterday, Mercury is in retrograde. Mercury rules communication, and being in retrograde, means it is going slower than it usually does (appearing to go backwards from our view on Earth), thus making our efforts to communicate really difficult. This is good time to review and re-do, but starting something new probably means re-doing it later. If you've already started a project, it's fine to progress, just be aware of technological issues running amuck. All the computer glitches, dropped cell phone calls, faxes that won't send or receive, texts that never made it- all due to Mercury in Retrograde. Also, all those fights with people at this time? It's a communication issue, so be patient, have compassion and learn what you need to from this situation. Issues from the past tend to re-surface at this time, so note them for what they are, process, and move on. Your animal companions are anxious and needy right now too, so centering and grounding yourself will help them too. 

Meditation to review any issues you've encountered, yoga asanas, regular deep breathing, connecting with nature, journaling, engaging in creative activity, flower essences* and healing crystals** are all ways to take care of yourself always, but are especially important while Mercury is in retrograde.  Of course, exercise, drinking plenty of water, eating healthy, fresh, minimally processed foods, getting plenty of sleep and eliminating any unnecessary stressful activities are imperative at this time. Taking a walk outside, especially where you can touch some trees and see some fall flowers will take care of both exercise and connecting with nature. Take some water with you and a camera and you've included 2 more things from the above list. Write about any insights you had along the way and you've journaled. None of these have to take up your whole day, but take the time and you'll sail through this tense period. 

This Mercury in retrograde is especially intense as it is right between the penumbral eclipse/full moon that just happened Friday and an exact square of Pluto and Uranus on November 1st. My forte with Astrology lies with knowing how the signs affect a person's personality, but I have been following Empowering Astrology and Starsdance Astrology on Facebook and it has been very helpful in helping me stay aware of how the planets affect our daily lives.
The above picture is of a wall hanging I have depicting the Green Tara, Goddess of Compassion. Call upon her during this time, as self-compassion is so important, now and always. Self-compassion leads to compassion for others, which may not allow you to fully understand their behavior, but will help you to accept it. 
*The "Positive Energy" formula by Fox Mountain Flower Essences and Active 8 by Flower Essence Services and the Calming animal blend by Vortex Essences are both linked on my Flower Essence page and have been very helpful to me and I recommend them at this time. 
**Green Moss agate gives one the feeling of being in nature and is one of my favorite healing crystals when needing peace. Please read through the rest of the descriptions on my healing crystal page and decide what other healing crystals resonate with you for calming energy. 
I wish you peace. If you need further insight on any situation that arises, such as issues from the past re-surfacing or conflicts occurring between people, I am available for Angel Tarot readings via email. You will get your answer usually within 24-48 hours, which is much faster than making an appointment and much more convenient.

Mercury is out of retrograde November 10th, but give it a few days since some things go even wonkier as it catches up to speed.


Friday, October 18, 2013

Fairy Stuff


Well, I've been guided to embrace my eccentricity and let my freak flag fly, so I thought I'd tell you about my Fairy message experience.

Do you ever have something disappear, and you look and look for it, often in the same place because you know it was there, only to have it show up in that exact place later? Or, how about having something show up in a really obvious, plainly seen place you know it wasn't 5 minutes earlier?  No, I don't mean when your children wonder off with something and randomly it shows up again... though sometimes children's things are involved. These are Fairies at work... well, at play, which is the same thing to them. In our case, and I suspect in most cases, they are trying to get our attention. In our house, I'd had 2 Halloween art/craft books, a book on past lives, a book on those between lives waiting to be born, some art/craft tools and my son's iPod all disappear. One of the Halloween books and the iPod reappeared temporarily, just as I described above- in a place we'd looked over and over and was really obvious when we found them. When my family wondered why/how all this strange activity was going on, I said, "The Fairies have it." This was said nonchalantly, and believing it, but not fully feeling it. Then one day as I was thinking about all the lost objects, again, I thought, "The Fairies have them." and got chills all over. That's one way the Angels and Fairies validate that what you are thinking is true.  So, I asked a woman who I traded readings with to ask when/if the Fairies would give the stuff back. Her response was that they would give it back, they were just being mischievous and wanted me to go outside with my infant daughter more because they love her, love playing with her, and she can see them. Well, I really felt it then! For one, my daughter looks like a Fairy and since the day she was born, I've called her my Fairy Girl. She was born on Earth day, with 3 out of 4 of the signs that determine your major personality traits in Earth. The Fairies in the Angel Tarot deck represent the Earth element since they are Angels of the Earth. Her name is Serafina, an Angel name, and I've often called her Fina Le Fey. No wonder she can see them! And I've never seen a child this young laugh so easily, so while I may not discuss these facts in mixed company (except for on the internet now! Ha!), it makes a lot of sense that she sees them and they play with her. Further proof that she is from their realm is that she gets random pieces of glitter on her. Just one piece, but obvious to me.  Usually it has been green. Today it is purple. I am not aware of anything that we own that has these colors of glitter that she has been around when I found the glitter on her. My son is from their realm too. So much so, that even people who don't talk about these things readily agree that he is Fae Folk. Some of my collage art is him in wings. :)  His name is Angelo, so they are both Angel-Fairies. They've been brother and sister over several lifetimes, so that makes sense.

After some time, the iPod showed back up and then disappeared again. So, when I got my Magical Messages from the Fairies deck by Doreen Virtue, I decided to ask again about all the lost objects.  We had spent more time outside than previously, but it is hard taking care of everyone's needs and getting out.  When I was shuffling the cards, a whole bunch of them flew out of my hands. Now, when a card or 2 pops out of the deck, you are supposed to look at them as they are part of the message. But, there were so many, I just looked at the one that was turned upright and put the rest back in the deck. It said to "ask for what I want". So, I smiled and asked the Fairies to please return our things.  When I came back into the room later, I saw 2 more cards lying face up on the floor.  One was "Connect With Nature" and the other one was the "Daughter" card.  How I laughed when I saw those!!  Ok, Fairies, I get it!!  I've had more outdoor time since then, even some barefoot time in October, and plan on even more.  Their intentions are really for us to experience the healing and balancing energies of nature and apparently will go to great lengths to get us to take action!  Here are the pictures of the cards below. :)



Thursday, October 3, 2013

New Blog Post About Our Belly Dance Flash Mob

It's over on my Belly Dance Blog: Chronicles of a Dancer's Journey. The story behind it is a really good example of why you should say "yes" if your intuition says so, even if your fear says, "that's crazy". :) Read all about it here.